Feb 15 2010
How To Announce Him That You Are Pregnant
Becoming parents is not easy. This brings a lot of responsibilities. If your man is scared to become a father, it will not be a simple task telling him that you are pregnant. A good idea would be to buy some girl baby bedding. Show them to him before giving the big news. This will be a very emotional moment.
Keep in mind that a man is a kind of a kid too. Try to help him imagine how it would be like to have a boy. They would be able to play together and have a lot of fun. To help him picture that, you should choose from the bedding collections something for boys too.
It’s important to know that he can be a really good father even if now he’s scared. Try to make him understand this too. Together you can offer that little angel a lot of love and protection. Get a summer baby monitor to be able to check on him even when you are in another room.
Decide together how you will deal with your new life. You both have to be aware of the fact that a lot will change. One of you might have to give up working for a while. Find someone to help you and everything will be much easier.
Tell him that you are also scared. Together you need to be like a team. It will give him more self confidence knowing that he is not the only one scared. Even if you were not ready yet, the baby chose his moment to come into this world. The most important thing you can give him is love.
Go visit other couple with kids. This will help you prepare for the future. Let your husband talk to another young father. It will do him good to hear from another man how great it is to have a baby. He needs a man to man talk. You can also ask for advice from your friend. May be she can give you some useful tips. As you parents, you need to have other friends with children. You might no longer have so many things in common with your other friends.
Having a baby in the house will help you have fun every single day. Playing with him will make you forget about the rest of the world.
